Why you should consider adopting a child with a different ethnicity to your own

It’s rare that we match an adopter with a child whose ethnicity and heritage are different to their own as, in the first instance, we look for adopters who reflect a child’s heritage and ethnicity. However, when we do need to look beyond, it’s key to find someone who is creative and resourceful in finding ways to support their child to develop a sense of their background, history and identity to give them a strong sense of belonging.

Reasons why you should consider adopting a child with an ethnicity different to your own

To give a child a safe and caring home, that they otherwise may never have

To open yourself up to a relationship that will forever change you for the better
To experience a culture you may not, until now, know anything about and support a child to feel connected to their past and present
To become part of a new community, helping a child to create lasting memories and a deep sense of pride in their heritage
To positively impact a child’s sense of self, helping them to celebrate their cultural heritage.

Am I a suitable candidate?

If you are open to adopting a child whose heritage and ethnicity are different to your own and you think you could meet a child’s needs we’d love to speak with you.

As an adopter, you will need to commit to supporting a child’s developmental needs including helping them to maintain and build meaningful connections that support a resilient and strong sense of self. If you were to adopt a child whose heritage and ethnicity are different to your own you will need to support your son or daughter in managing questions from the wider community.

Our families have sought support from local cultural communities such as their African Caribbean church and have widely participated in events that celebrate a child’s background.

What would I need to bear in mind?

Becoming a multi-ethnic adoptive family means joyfully celebrating diverse ethnic backgrounds. It involves engaging the entire family in the beauty of each culture and acknowledging the richness it adds. Additionally, it requires preparing and supporting children, and extended family members, to possibly navigate the challenges related to racism, prejudice and white privilege.

Will I get any support?

The support that Adoption Connects can offer adopters is second to none. From the adoption readiness tool for those considering adoption, to individual child support plans, mentoring, buddies and financial support, you will not be embarking on, or taking this journey alone. We will always be here to support you and implore that you ask for our help. Access to our services is available for the child’s whole childhood, from the very beginning of your adoption journey.

What if we’d like to adopt siblings?

We are actively seeking adopters open to embracing the unique opportunity of considering siblings. The enduring bonds between siblings frequently surpass most other relationships, lasting throughout a person's lifetime. For children who have experienced time in care, these sibling connections hold exceptional significance. Additionally, the benefit of living with someone who looks like you (a sibling) can contribute to a sense of familiarity, identity, and shared experiences.

What are the core benefits?

Adoption offers numerous rewards, with the most significant being the opportunity to provide a secure and loving home for a child and contributing significantly to their exploration of their culture, identity and confidence. When you choose to adopt, you not only enable the child to flourish and develop but also experience personal growth yourself. This will lead to shared new experiences, ultimately enriching both your lives.

Enquire today

If you are open to the profound experience of adopting a child from a different ethnicity, get in touch. Your journey starts with one simple step, and we are here to support you every step of the way.

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